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    Default Re: Life is a struggle.You struggle ... again & again. And one day, you triumph

    Quote Originally Posted by vimtr888 View Post
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hj7li1z47_4 . Amazing beautiful & calm music.
    Covid19 pandemic is a difficult times of uncertainty, fear and anguish.
    Darkness has come & will go away. Believe and you will find your way. Amazing beautiful & calm music.


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    We are not perfect. We do made mistakes . Sometimes, we must learn to admit our mistakes and A man must be big enough to admit your mistakes.


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    Peaceful easy feeling - (1) peaceful easy feeling (Eagle) - YouTube
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    I once was lost but now I’m found. Was blind, but now I see. Finally, I got a peaceful easy feeling.



    When we looked back in the past, it was full of sadness, anger and frustration. The office politics toxic environment that worn the us down. The issues of long working hours & unrealistic workloads exacerbate our miserable life at work. Feeling less motivated to get up in the morning to work.


    Sometimes we care too much about what other people think of us & be their prisoner. Make comparisons with others too much and bring ourselves down. We always wait, hope, and pray at times for things to change. But nothing changes. Nothing brings us happiness or satisfaction. Just want to give up life.



    After many years of struggling to find happiness. I realized the step toward change was acceptance. Only with acceptance can there be real change. Enough was enough. No longer “locking” up myself. I felt that I know the meaning of life. Good days give me happiness; bad days give you experiences; both are essential to life. Only I can make myself happy. I cannot count on anyone or anything else to bring me into a state of peaceful happiness. I won’t be as stupid as before. I want to remove my chains of negative thought. I am ready to Open the door of blessing and closed the door of misery. I want to wipe away the tears to a new beginning of my new life.


    Looking back on this struggle and smile because it was life and decided to live it. All of us have different opinions and thinking. Live and let live is the secret of happier life.




    一切看淡,让一切随缘 .只有愿意放下的人,才能收获幸福!
    Only those who are willing to let go can reap happiness.




    贪图越多,越不快乐,
    The more greed, the less happy you are.




    懂得知足,才會感悟到身邊的幸福
    Knowing contentment, you will realize the happiness around you.




    看淡了,人生就没那么复杂
    See through life, life will not be so complicated.




    心态一变,人生就变
    When the mindset changes, life changes




    人之所以痛苦,不是因為擁有得太少,而是想要得太多
    The reason why people are suffering is not because they have too little, but because they want more. There are two ways to be rich: One is by acquiring much, and the other is by desiring little.




    人苦到底了,才会彻底觉悟
    Only those who have gone through untold suffering will be thoroughly awakened




    人生不会苦一辈子,但一定会苦一阵子,如果你逃避苦这一阵子,就一定会苦一辈子
    “In life, you will not suffer forever, but you will definitely suffer for a period of time. If you run away from short term sufferings, you will definitely suffer forever!”




    万事开头难。
    All things are difficult at the start. Patience and persistence can break through anything, no matter how great the difficulty. "Dripping water hollows out stone, not through force but through persistence." Things always get easier if you persevere.




    吃得苦中苦,方为人上人Enduring deepening pain is how man ascends.




    Reading habit & learning
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    To figure out why we are not happy or why we are stuck financially. It is only reading self-improvement books can get us out of the current predicament.


    A person's total amount of pain of struggling over a period of time is about the same, but if the person's cognitive level which is relating to or involving the processes of thinking and reasoning is different. He will jump to another area of happiness, which is reading self-improvement books. Reading lead to mindset changes. When the mindset changes, life changes.Some of the self-improvement's books recommended.



    1)The road less travelled. 少有人走的路


    2) Emotional first aid. 情绪急救


    3)The Art of thinking clearly. 思维艺术清晰


    4)Atomic habit. .原子习惯
    etc etc




    Peaceful easy feeling after exercising
    ============================
    My first love is the sport, and it will always be my priority.

    Exercise is important for boosting Endorphin levels and improving mood & reduce your mental stress. Endorphins, "HAPPY" Chemical in our body will help you to relieve stress, keep your body healthy, physically & mentally.

    Natural "happy chemical in our body. Make full use of it. Endorphins are chemicals produced by the body to relieve stress and pain.




    Peaceful easy feeling. Hello Pension. Goodbye Tension
    ===================================
    A Million@ Age 65 = CPF SA + RA (Annuity life plan)

    CPF is one of the best for retirement plan in the world. The key to success is to start early as young as possible & be Patience & have faith in our CPF system. We need a safety net that we can rely on no matter how adverse our financial situation





    人无远虑, 必有近忧. If one has no long-term considerations, he can hardly avoid troubles every now and then.; He who has no anxious thoughts for the future will find trouble right at hand.; If a man is not farsighted, he is bound to encounter difficulties in the near future.; Those who do not plan for the future will find trouble at their doorstep



    风水轮流转 是指你这一生不可能永远都是一帆风顺的
    Good luck won't always belong to you, good luck won't always be with you, good things won't always be on you. Your life cannot always be smooth sailing. CPF comes useful when there is a sudden turn of your Feng Shui fortunate at later age.



    先苦后甜
    Bitter now, sweet later. Work hard now and enjoy the fruits of our labor later.




    Peaceful easy feeling - clean & tidy house = Clear & peaceful mind
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    Life feels more stressful when things are cluttered and messy. When your environment is clean you feel happy motivated and healthy & at peace.
    Regularly do housekeep to ensure that everything at home is cleaned, tidy, well organized and things in its correct place. All important documents are filed properly.



    Good booking keeping habit is also important. Get into a habit of keeping acct & keep a record of your daily expenses. This allow you to understand your spending habits & adjust those that are too expensive.




    Peaceful easy feeling - Insurance Protection
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    When you are young and healthy you probably won’t even consider your health as important. You never imagine that one day they could get diabetes or cholesterol problems as you neglect your health.
    Many health problems are also related to stress. Stress will worsen or increase the risk of conditions like obesity, heart disease, diabetes, depression, gastrointestinal problems etc.



    Life & health insurance are one of the most important financial products 100% you must buy as early as possible.If U have enough money, don’t rush to make more money. U should buy insurance for yourself to protect your wealth.
    In the event of an emergency such as an illness or accident, you will lose your hard earned $overnight & fall into poverty.




    Peaceful easy feeling - Take Care of Your Tongue
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    A tongue may weigh little, but it can crush a man.



    It’s just a tongue, but the words you form with it can cause someone to give up on their happiness, commit suicide, think less of themselves, make a wrong choice, go against their beliefs, or do something else that harms them or their life in some way. And, because you don’t know how people think, you don’t always know which words are going to be the words that crush them.



    Anger is humankind’s biggest weakness. Anger only begets more anger. Taming our anger is the golden key to our physical and mental well-being.


    Always remember.

    The first to apologize is the bravest.
    The first to forgive is the strongest.
    The first to forget is the happiest



    Forgiveness is a healing process. An important action that can lead to a place of greater healing and peace.
    Forgiving, and letting go of anger and resentment, has shown to benefit a person's physical health. A powerful motivational tool.



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    (133) 人这一生 - YouTube

    In life, several things happen to us with us & around us. Life is always full of obstacles, don't expect smooth sailing all the time. What matters the most is how you chose to react to them.

    Should you have a bad day at work. Think of the man who has been out of work for many months. Struggling to feed his family.

    Our life is all about learning, adapting & converting experiences into positive learning. Good days give you happiness. Bad days give you experiences; both are essential to life.
    We must learn to accept your spouse or others for who they are, not for what you want them to be.
    Don’t try to change who they are. 抓得越紧,丢得越多. The tighter you grab, the more you lose. Word of wisdom.

    Let it be - A mature inner mind and a kind of self-confidence & grasp to acceptance that things sometimes cannot be change.
    A person's maturity starts from learning to control emotions.
    The true mark of maturity is when somebody (husband or colleague etc) hurt you and you will try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back.

    Forgiveness is a healing process. An important action that can lead to a place of greater healing and peace.
    Forgiving, and letting go of anger and resentment, has shown to benefit a person's physical health.

    The first to apologies is the braves.
    The first to forgive is the strongest.
    The first to forget is the happiest.

    人生苦短,不必对自己太过苛求,知足和开心的生活着就好了。
    Life is short, treasure what you have had and let go what you can't obtain. Be happy and cool.

    当你生气的时候, 安慰自己:算了吧!气来气去,伤得是自己
    When you are angry, comfort yourself: forget it! Every time when you get angry, you just hurt yourself more.

    人生不能十全十美, 生活不能事事如意。
    Life can't be perfect. Life can't be all right all the time.

    贪图越多,越不快乐,
    The more greed, the less happy you are.

    抓得越紧,丢得越多。
    The tighter you grab, the more you lose.

    懂得知足,才會感悟到身邊的幸福
    Knowing contentment, you will realize the happiness around you.

    想要快樂,必須知足和惜福
    To be happy, you must be contented. Appreciate and cherish what you already have.

    看淡了,人生就没那么复杂
    See through life, life will not be so complicated.

    人苦到底了,才会彻底觉悟
    Only those who have gone through untold suffering will be thoroughly awakened.

    不求,财富无数, 但求,够花够用;
    Not asking, there are countless wealth, but ask, enough to spend enough.

    不求,房子多大, 但求,一家温暖
    Not asking, how big is the house, but beg, a warmth home.

    不求朋友无数,但求真情一份
    Don't ask for countless friends, but ask for a true feeling

    不求,生活奢侈, 但求,美满幸福
    Not asking, life is extravagant. But seeking, to be happy

    不求,车子豪华, 但求,一生平安
    Not asking, the car is luxurious. But seek peace of life.

    不求人人敬仰,只求内心安详
    Not asking everyone to respect. But just seek for peace of mind

    不求大富大贵,只求活得不累。
    Not asking, to be very rich. But just want to live without being tired

    不求,人生辉煌, 但求,一生无悔
    Not asking, life is brilliant, but seek, no regrets in life.

    一切看淡,让一切随缘 .只有愿意放下的人,才能收获幸福!
    Only those who are willing to let go can reap happiness.

    懂得知足,才會感悟到身邊的幸福
    Knowing contentment, you will realize the happiness around you.

    心态一变,人生就变
    When the mindset changes, life changes

    人之所以痛苦,不是因為擁有得太少,而是想要得太多
    The reason why people are suffering is not because they have too little, but because they want more. There are two ways to be rich: One is by acquiring much, and the other is by desiring little.

    人生不会苦一辈子,但一定会苦一阵子,如果你逃避苦这一阵子,就一定会苦一辈子
    “In life, you will not suffer forever, but you will definitely suffer for a period of time. If you run away from short term sufferings, you will definitely suffer forever!”

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    我们之所以改变不了自己,是因为内心痛苦不够大,改变意愿不强烈。改变不是能力的事,而是意愿的事,当你有强烈的意愿,坚定信念,停止负念,转为正念,不断叠加,不断行动,好的改变一定会发生,自己必将迎来见证奇迹的时刻!

    The reason why we can't change ourselves is because the inner pain is not big enough and the desire to change is not strong enough. Change is not a matter of ability, but a matter of will. When you have a strong will, firm belief, stop negative thoughts, turn to righteous thoughts, keep superimposing, and keep taking actions, good changes will definitely happen, and you will surely witness miracles moment!

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    My 2023 Resolution -我要成为世界上最厉害的人
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    我每个人的一生都不会一帆风顺.

    人生只要活着就一定会出现问题

    问题不可怕

    问题如果还不解决就变成困难

    困难你不解决就变成灾难

    超越恐惧快最的方法是突破恐惧

    记住你这一辈子唯一的敌人

    就是你自己内心当中的恐惧

    杀死你内心当中的恐惧

    你将无所不能

    你以前不敢干我就干

    你为什么不成功因为你有恐惧吗?

    那怎么样才能做呢

    杀死你内心当中的恐惧

    你讲无所不能 There is nothing that can't be done

    那怎么样才能杀死你内心当中的恐惧呢?

    怕什么就做什么

    无有恐怖 There is no hindrance in the heart




    我要做世界上最厉害的人

    说起床就起床

    说做就做

    说玩说玩

    说收心说收 心

    拿得起放得下

    做没做过是叫事情成长

    做不愿意做的事叫改变

    做不勇做事情叫突破

    最可怕是事情就是

    一天到 晚什么 都不做

    永远 留给到明天



    2023 new year is a chance to make changes for the better. The year has to be fantastic.”
    Do whatever scares you the most. and ready for new challenges and experiences

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    "My son is just an ordinary person as compared to his Neighbour's son always working hard on himself to learn extra skill".

    Some people say that he has several years of work experience, but in fact, he does not have that many years of work experience, he just repeats one year's work for several years. This is very similar to some ordinary workers who do the same thing every day for more than ten years. In other words, they just repeat a day's work for many years. So, such people are destined to be ordinary people.

    If you work hard on your job, you can make a living. But if you work hard on yourself, you could make a fortune. Start learning extra skill & seriously reading self-improvement books for self-development.



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    Conquer yourself, then you can conquer anything

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