I am surprised to note that your reply was as recent as mine. That goes to prove my point that you are indeed a lonely person so much so you have no friends or acquantainces whom you can spend time with. Consequently, you do what you know best i.e. joining intellectual forum like this to give your nonsensical view points. Honestly, I have nothing against you as I see you are trying your best to stay in the same league as the rest of the viewers here. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and for that matter, no one is adjudged right or wrong as after all, this site is nothing but as you quite rightly pointed a virtual and make belief space for people to air their fantasies and dreams which in turn make them feel good and happy. Speaking about being happy, I trust you are clearly short of it. Let me pose you a few questions:
When was the last time you were greeted with a smile?
Can you remember the last time you have received a compliment for someone you know or work with
How do you define HAPPINESS?
Is your motive of getting people work up in this forum a way of satisfying your personal ego and self esteem?
Just because you are unhappy, doesnt mean everyone else has to feel the same way. One advice to overcome your current debilitating state of mind is to make others happy by being amicable, magnanimous and constructive when providing your views. In return, you will be guaranteed respect and honour. Remember Respect is EARNED not but PISSING OFF people. By the way, I am interested to know which profession you are in and I may be able to provide online consultation to help you combat your problem.