Originally Posted by
eng81157
i believe grades don't and should not determine your lot and outlook in life. though studies are important, i personally believe (and stand for) that it is better to inculcate an inquisitive mind and an appetite for learning, while being backed up by sound moral values. or else, we will all end up creating clever, but spoilt brats
case in point, i have a cousin, from malaysia, who is a smart kid. is he a prodigious talent? probably not, but definitely above average. his parents are both teachers and they take pride in drilling him well in his studies. got straight As at SPM and came to Singapore as an asean scholar (the typical nerd), graduated from NUS eventually. while looking good on paper qualifications, his personal life is a disaster : zero EQ, divorced shortly after getting married and most disappointingly, sort of disavowed his parents
do i want my kids to turn out like him? nope