Can you accept Cohabitation?

**Laguna** · 24-11-12, 18:28

I notice, the trend is for the couple to stay together first before they agree to get married...

Can u accept this, especially if your children particularly your daughter?

I find it very very difficult to accept.....anyway, sex before marriage is already the norm...

**roly8** · 24-11-12, 18:36

i won't allow my daughter

**jacelynchia** · 24-11-12, 18:59

Nowadays so many divorce cases, better play safe and as long as the two are happy, it is enough.
I cohabited for a year before getting engaged.

**carbuncle** · 24-11-12, 19:14

its the pragmatic choice to avoid future problems.

a holiday or two isnt the same as experiencing daily grind of living in each others faces.

**buttercarp** · 24-11-12, 19:29

Originally Posted by roly8

i won't allow my daughter

Me too, son can, daughter cannot.
ROM before marrying traditionally.
Stay together to test out.
If really cannot then annul marriage.

**cavaliver** · 24-11-12, 19:34

In a relationship, there is usually one party that loves more, sacrifices more or gives in more... I know it sounds silly. How about staying next door so that they are close yet no need to compromise their lifestyle or habits to please the other party . Haha

**radha08** · 24-11-12, 19:58

Originally Posted by roly8

i won't allow my daughter

i will allow my son...

...but too bad no son...but NOT my daughter...

**radha08** · 24-11-12, 20:00

Originally Posted by jacelynchia

Nowadays so many divorce cases, better play safe and as long as the two are happy, it is enough.
I cohabited for a year before getting engaged.

cheers welcome to the club...before marriage i had 1kg of hair on my head...

...now left 499grams...whahaha

**azeoprop** · 24-11-12, 20:16

I'm ok with it, just like getting 30 days free trial with money back guarantee. Better than end up getting a lemon for life.

Living together is totally different from courtship.

**jacelynchia** · 24-11-12, 20:16

Originally Posted by radha08

cheers welcome to the club...before marriage i had 1kg of hair on my head...

...now left 499grams...whahaha

hahaha, yours is hair fall problem due to aging!

**Shanhz** · 24-11-12, 20:28

Originally Posted by Laguna

I notice, the trend is for the couple to stay together first before they agree to get married...

Can u accept this, especially if your children particularly your daughter?

I find it very very difficult to accept.....anyway, sex before marriage is already the norm...

you said it yourself. sex b4 marriage already quite norm. cohabit possibly increase the frequency, that's all.

2 perspective. GOOD - it allows free trial, return product is unsatisfied. BAD - if already married, will try to tolerate or change. if not married, just return product. so it encourages singlehood indirectly.

but with divorce being so prevalent, i think the "BAD" part negligible lah. anyhow nowadays not happy also suka suka divorce

**zzz1** · 24-11-12, 20:33

If that lead to marriage still not tt bad , there are many cohabitation trend now become long term and address each partners ..

**Shanhz** · 24-11-12, 20:42

Originally Posted by zzz1

If that lead to marriage still not tt bad , there are many cohabitation trend now become long term and address each partners ..

if intention not to have kids, marriage and partners actually not much diff. without the legal tie, there is less pressure to stay together, which might lead to a more relax relship.

no right or wrong, personal opinion. dun ask me abt my kids, by then 20-30 years from now, many things would have changed already.

**buttercarp** · 24-11-12, 20:42

Lol.......
All allow son but not daughter.
So finally no one to cohabitate with.
Only perhaps the msm.

**Shanhz** · 24-11-12, 20:43

Originally Posted by buttercarp

Lol
All allow son but not daughter.
So finally no one to cohabitate with.
Only perhaps the msm.

that's why gay on the rise. all the sons allowed to cohabitate

**indomie** · 24-11-12, 21:05

More cohabitate..... Rental huat ah

**Arcachon** · 24-11-12, 21:23

I am going to divorce my wife and then cohabitate with her to get another rental income. Huat Ah...

**radha08** · 24-11-12, 21:36

Originally Posted by jacelynchia

hahaha, yours is hair fall problem due to aging!

aging after marriage...

**radha08** · 24-11-12, 21:37

Originally Posted by Arcachon

I am going to divorce my wife and then cohabitate with her to get another rental income. Huat Ah...

WE ARE SINGAPORE SINGAPORE.....SINGAPOREAN....

**jacelynchia** · 24-11-12, 21:51

Originally Posted by radha08

WE ARE SINGAPORE SINGAPORE.....SINGAPOREAN....

haha, 100% SINGAPOREAN!

Do you need me to recommend some anti hair fall shampoo?

**radha08** · 24-11-12, 22:01

Originally Posted by jacelynchia

haha, 100% SINGAPOREAN!

Do you need me to recommend some anti hair fall shampoo?

ha ha...no need la...BOTAK is the BEST....

**jacelynchia** · 24-11-12, 22:08

Originally Posted by radha08

ha ha...no need la...BOTAK is the BEST....

Hahahha, maybe too chilly.

Actually this cohabitation issue is very small, nowadays people follow their hearts and besides I do know friends who are not married but staying together for a long time.

It's funny that daughters cannot be allowed to cohabitat but sons can, what is there more to lose?

**auroraborealis** · 24-11-12, 22:22

in SG not so common, cos muz rent apt
if study overseas, very common

in fact even in our generation when we studied uni in Aussie, like 15-20yrs ago

Originally Posted by Laguna

I notice, the trend is for the couple to stay together first before they agree to get married...

Can u accept this, especially if your children particularly your daughter?

I find it very very difficult to accept.....anyway, sex before marriage is already the norm...

**radha08** · 24-11-12, 22:36

Originally Posted by jacelynchia

Hahahha, maybe too chilly.

Actually this cohabitation issue is very small, nowadays people follow their hearts and besides I do know friends who are not married but staying together for a long time.

It's funny that daughters cannot be allowed to cohabitat but sons can, what is there more to lose?

sis 9 months...sis 9 months...

for a man its 9 minutes or maybe some NOT so STRONG type 9 secs of pleasure

but for a woman its 9 months 9 months

**carbuncle** · 24-11-12, 22:39

wat happened to sg men... my last session was more like 90mins....

**jacelynchia** · 24-11-12, 22:46

Originally Posted by radha08

sis 9 months...sis 9 months...

for a man its 9 minutes or maybe some NOT so STRONG type 9 secs of pleasure

but for a woman its 9 months 9 months

HAHAHA!

I'm speechless.

Carbuncle, 90 minutes is more like massage lah.

**howgozit** · 24-11-12, 22:48

Originally Posted by jacelynchia

It's funny that daughters cannot be allowed to cohabitat but sons can, what is there more to lose?

Its may be politically incorrect to say so, but the truth is society values chastity in a woman more than in a man.

**carbuncle** · 24-11-12, 22:52

making love is not just about the act itself. foreplay and intimacy is equally if not more impt. all adds up to 90mins lol.

**jacelynchia** · 24-11-12, 23:00

Originally Posted by howgozit

Its may be politically incorrect to say so, but the truth is society values chastity in a woman more than in a man.

Cohabitation will not affect a woman's chastity unless it's like friends with benefits situation.
I feel many couples are stressed to be married because of responsibilities.

Carbuncle, 90 mins is one and a half hours!

**howgozit** · 24-11-12, 23:02

Originally Posted by carbuncle

making love is not just about the act itself. foreplay and intimacy is equally if not more impt. all adds up to 90mins lol.

brrrr.... shivers, goose pimples and hair standing.... brrr

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