What do you think of marry a girl who work as a doctor?

[zeamybro]

To me the physical attraction or sexual appeal must be there, you wouldnt want to hug a woman on bed every night if she doesn even attract you right from the start...

As for true love, to me it doesn come readily in a packaged form. It has to be built with time... the happiness and challenges you have gone through together. To fall in love with someone and love someone are 2 very diff thing. The former does not take more than a min, but the latter takes years...

In finding a partner, i think its impt to look for someone who enjoys similar lifestyle and and share the same vision in life as me. No pt if i find someone who loves to travel a lot whereas i am the homely type, someone who loves kids but i detest screams and cries, someone who is sticky whereas i am the independent type ... or someone who see $$$ as v impt but i prefer a more lay back life.

[buttercarp]

Recently I tried to match make a guy friend who graduated from an Ivy League college with a lady doctor.
It was so awkward.
The guy was forthcoming and natural but the lady doctor was like .
Dunno whether it is because of all the years of studying and working in a hospital that makes her incompatible conversationally or what!

[carbuncle]

is the guy open minded? i oso very froth cumming.

[nalimakk]

beauty lies in the eye of the beholder....william SHAKESspeare...

i think he shake too much....wahahaha...

it's unique Lolzz

[einnoc]

Pardon me, but yr reason for marrying is just to support the pte ppty loans?Then why go thru the hassle of dating (cld be wks/mths/years)= loss of time = $ too? Buy the ppty but must share with the other pax? If both do not have similar taste n lifestyle, even reno works in your hse might result in unhappiness. Lastly, when children comes into the picture, things might get complicated if there isn't love in the 1st place.

On the other hand, if u really love the lady, u wld not have mind if she's rich or not coz u will be more than willing to provide her a lifetime. The marriage vow....if u can't fulfil it, dun go into it....To face someone u dun love for a lifetime will be torturous for u n for her.

[ysyap]

To me the physical attraction or sexual appeal must be there, you wouldnt want to hug a woman on bed every night if she doesn even attract you right from the start...

As for true love, to me it doesn come readily in a packaged form. It has to be built with time... the happiness and challenges you have gone through together. To fall in love with someone and love someone are 2 very diff thing. The former does not take more than a min, but the latter takes years...

In finding a partner, i think its impt to look for someone who enjoys similar lifestyle and and share the same vision in life as me. No pt if i find someone who loves to travel a lot whereas i am the homely type, someone who loves kids but i detest screams and cries, someone who is sticky whereas i am the independent type ... or someone who see $$$ as v impt but i prefer a more lay back life.

Good advise! A poor couple earning < $2k/mth may be happier than a rich couple earning > $200k/mth.

[chiaberry]

Yes, I am enjoying all the convenience now. This is especially true if you want to have babies - free consultation from the best gynae, no delivery charge, baby vaccinations done at home, 'medication on demand', etc.

Specialists usually give doctor's spouse discount or no charge if they know each other.

Working long hours is part and parcel of a doctor's job, including shifts at night and Saturdays/Sundays.

Very pai-seh to get "free" consults therefore end up having to search for suitable "present" to give to the colleagues who treated you or your family members.

One of the reasons lady docs are "low maintenance" is because they don't have time to shop, dress up overly or put jewellery or make up.

[buttercarp]

Very pai-seh to get "free" consults therefore end up having to search for suitable "present" to give to the colleagues who treated you or your family members.

One of the reasons lady docs are "low maintenance" is because they don't have time to shop, dress up overly or put jewellery or make up.

I reckon that there is no incentive for lady doctors to dress up.
The patients are ill and usually will not pay attention to how they dress.
How they dress will not affect the outcome of their job, in fact it might hinder their movement in times of emergency eg wearing high heels, wearing bulky jewellery.
And for those who work in the operating theatre, they are constantly masked up, so there is no necessity for make up and cannot wear jewellery, not even a ring.

[chiaberry]

In restructured hospitals, the docs and dentists wear hospital attire ("scrubs").

As a matrimonial partner, you might have to accept that your doctor spouse seems at times to be married to their work rather than you. And even in private practice patients are becoming so demanding these days that you can't get away from them. They will bombard your handphone with desperate calls and messages. It is essentially a very high end service industry. Not an easy occupation like you think. Only a few rake in the millions. There are many who slog for much less $$$ than you condoforum members and with a lot more disturbance to their physical and mental welfare. It's those few high earners who distort the public's perception of the medical profession.

[roly8]

Pardon me, but yr reason for marrying is just to support the pte ppty loans?Then why go thru the hassle of dating (cld be wks/mths/years)= loss of time = $ too? Buy the ppty but must share with the other pax? If both do not have similar taste n lifestyle, even reno works in your hse might result in unhappiness. Lastly, when children comes into the picture, things might get complicated if there isn't love in the 1st place.

On the other hand, if u really love the lady, u wld not have mind if she's rich or not coz u will be more than willing to provide her a lifetime. The marriage vow....if u can't fulfil it, dun go into it....To face someone u dun love for a lifetime will be torturous for u n for her.

not just loan la..
if can find someone u like and still have comfortable combined income, it is a bonus..

To me the physical attraction or sexual appeal must be there, you wouldnt want to hug a woman on bed every night if she doesn even attract you right from the start...

As for true love, to me it doesn come readily in a packaged form. It has to be built with time... the happiness and challenges you have gone through together. To fall in love with someone and love someone are 2 very diff thing. The former does not take more than a min, but the latter takes years...

In finding a partner, i think its impt to look for someone who enjoys similar lifestyle and and share the same vision in life as me. No pt if i find someone who loves to travel a lot whereas i am the homely type, someone who loves kids but i detest screams and cries, someone who is sticky whereas i am the independent type ... or someone who see $$$ as v impt but i prefer a more lay back life.

thumb up!

I reckon that there is no incentive for lady doctors to dress up.
The patients are ill and usually will not pay attention to how they dress.
How they dress will not affect the outcome of their job, in fact it might hinder their movement in times of emergency eg wearing high heels, wearing bulky jewellery.
And for those who work in the operating theatre, they are constantly masked up, so there is no necessity for make up and cannot wear jewellery, not even a ring.

yea~ plain jane

In restructured hospitals, the docs and dentists wear hospital attire ("scrubs").

As a matrimonial partner, you might have to accept that your doctor spouse seems at times to be married to their work rather than you. And even in private practice patients are becoming so demanding these days that you can't get away from them. They will bombard your handphone with desperate calls and messages. It is essentially a very high end service industry. Not an easy occupation like you think. Only a few rake in the millions. There are many who slog for much less $$$ than you condoforum members and with a lot more disturbance to their physical and mental welfare. It's those few high earners who distort the public's perception of the medical profession.

like what dr richard teo say... target the rich taitai . first year already earn 1 million..
average GP won't earn much

[Shanhz]

And even in private practice patients are becoming so demanding these days that you can't get away from them. They will bombard your handphone with desperate calls and messages. It is essentially a very high end service industry.

well said.

just like i always consider lawyers high-end english teachers

[maisonjai]

bro roly
If this is the woman u been looking for, u can have my blessings.







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[chiaberry]

LOL never take those front cover photos on Tatler, Prestige etc seriously. The "real" person doesn't look anything like that. Not referring to the doc above. I was once at a meeting with another apparently "high society" doc who was "admiring" her photo on front cover of Tatler and twiddling her long hair with satisfaction. I was bemused that the photo did not show up some of the features like pock marks etc. The wonders of modern technology.....

@roly:
The ones whose photos appear in the magazines are high maintenance.

[roly8]

why you guys always recommend old woman to me

but it is alright..
since most young woman are not as rich as those older woman